Friday, July 18, 2014

Reading for Pleasure

by Sandy Cody

People are always talking about the importance of encouraging children to read, how it broadens their horizons and improves their mind, how it will help them do well in school  and eventually improve their chances of finding a good job and making lots of money. There's nothing wrong with that. I certainly don't disagree with the logic involved, but, to me, it seems even more important to encourage them to read for the pleasures (yes, it does have to be plural) it will give them. That's really why I read - for the pleasures I derive from it.
 The most obvious is the joy of immersing myself in another world via the pages of a book, an experience as sensual as it is intellectual. Ideally, the house is quiet and I’m burrowed deep in my favorite chair with my feet up and a cozy quilt tucked around me. If there’s rain accompanied by a howling wind outside, so much the better. A hostile world outside my window generates a sense of isolation and pushes me deeper into another world–actually two other worlds.
My outer self luxuriates in the tactile sensation of the book in my hands as my eyes skim over a page covered by a series of funny little squiggles that, through the ages and the ingenuity of man, have been organized into something called writing. Each squiggle is a symbol that represents a sound. Grouped together, they form words. Combined with other words, they convey ideas, thoughts, emotions, knowledge and, in the best of times, wisdom. Surely, this is man’s most important invention. Compared to the written word, the wheel is trivial.
But my inner self takes this amazing accomplishment for granted. It is somewhere else entirely–maybe in the north of France with Emma Bovary, maybe in St. Mary Mead with Miss Marple or it may be in a graphic universe with a comic strip character. Even there, on the pages my brother and I used to call the funny papers, I find people who help me understand what it means to be human. They reassure me that I’m not alone in my frailty. I might be deep within the psyche of someone of a different gender, or with a different skin color. I can inhabit another continent–or another planet. I can live in another century–long past or far in the future. The possibilities are limitless.
In addition to the actual reading, there is the pleasure of shared ideas. There are literally thousands of groups who meet regularly to talk about books. I belong to two such groups, each completely different, both in personality and in our reading selections. Within each group, we read the same book, but when we come together to talk about it, our insights are different–sometimes subtly, sometimes radically. Each member brings a unique perspective to each book and in our discussions we talk about subjects that would never come up in an ordinary conversation. I come away from these discussions enriched. My horizons have expanded. I’ve been exposed to ideas that, were I denied the pleasure of reading and the companionship of my bookish friends, might never have occurred to me.
And yet, for all the practical advantages of reading, that’s not why I read. First and foremost, I read for pleasure–and cannot imagine my life without the joy it gives me.

16 comments:

  1. I used to read a story to my boys at bedtime every night. Then after we were done, I'd hand then the next day's book and say "now look at the pictures until you get tired and make up a story in your head, Then tomorrow, we'll find out what the lady who wrote the book thought about the pictures." Gratefully it worked two ways - they quietly went to sleep and, at 42, they love to read still.

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    1. What a great idea, Kathye. I read to my boys (I have 2) every night at bedtime too, but I never thought to give them a preview of the next night. What a wonderful way to encourage their imaginations.

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  2. Absolutely! I think quite often we do more by way of squashing a love of reading through an insistence that our kids should read things in which they have no interest. And it's often mislabeled as "making the kid well-rounded". Ugh. My personal belief is that they have more of a chance of being well-rounded if we can infuse them with a love reading. Let them get to that other reading material, (if they ever get there), on their own.
    Great topic, Sandy!

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    1. So agree, Sofie. Left to make their own choice, they'll be much likely to read and to consider it fun, not a chore.

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  3. I can't imagine how my life would have been without reading. Enjoyed your post, Sandy!

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    1. Thanks, Kay. I can't imagine life with reading either.

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  4. I love the miracle of language and the way it can make us "see" and "feel" stories. Great post, Sandy!

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  5. I have loved to read since I was a little girl. My aunt and mother took me to the library a lot (even before I could read) and, to this day, libraries are my favorite places to be. I started my girls with books the same way and, thankfully, they love books and reading, too. I believe it is one of the greatest gifts I can give them, this love of reading. They have already learned things they have not been taught yet in school because they read. School will only teach you so much, but books will open up so many more possibilities and ideas.
    Great post.

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    1. We're kindred souls, Katy. Libraries are my favorite places too. I don't think there's a better gift to give a child than a love of reading.

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  6. Sandy--
    Thank you for the pleasure of reading your post! I agree, we humans derive so many benefits (and pleasures) from reading and being read to.
    Victoria--

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    1. You're welcome. Making up stories seems to me to be the best activity we humans have come up with so far. It's an invaluable connection to others.

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  7. Sandy, I agree totally. The TV is rarely on inside our home because my husband and I usually spend our evenings reading--for pleasure.

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    1. Good for you, Sydell. I don't watch much TV either. There're too many other things to do.

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