Saturday, January 3, 2015

In Praise of the One Word New Year Resolution


by Victoria M. Johnson

Before I give you the secret to the one word resolution, lets take a sympathetic look at how difficult others make the task of setting annual New Year's resolutions :-)

In Praise of the One Word New Year Resolution

The USA.gov website lists the thirteen most popular resolutions Americans make.  Number one is to lose weight, and number two is to volunteer to help others.  Click here to see the other popular resolutions in America.

Statistic Brain is a website of statistics, percentages, rankings, and all things numbers.  They site that a mere 8% of people who make resolutions are successful in achieving them! People in their twenties have a 39% rate of success compared to people over 50 who achieve at 14% rate. Click here to read all their Resolution statistics.

And Forbes has a piece about making your New Year's resolutions stick. The author, Amy Morin, gives four keys to help.  I like number two: Believe You Can Do It, where she talks about reducing negative thinking. Click here to read her article.

According to Business Insider, there are even apps to help people accomplish New Year's resolutions. Each of the five apps they highlight are for a specific resolution such as wanting to reduce stress or learn a new language.  The idea is that whatever your resolution, you might find an app to help you achieve it.  Click here to read their piece.

I should say I'm not against writing a long list of resolutions or goals each year.  But I've found this one word method really kept me focused and centered.  It's a daily reminder--or however often you want to look at it--of what matters to you.  The one word does not cause stress.  There aren't lists of items to check off.  There's no guilt as the months progress.  There's no time required to read through lists, adjust goals, cross off items, or add new items.  The one word needn't require a "to do" rather the one word can invoke a "to be" where you can easily identify if you are or are not being this word. 

I learned about the one word approach at a New Year's brunch with a few dear writer friends at a time in my life when I was incredibly overwhelmed and I didn't have the energy to create a list of goals.  But I could resolve to be one word.  That was about all I could handle.  Now looking back I see that my one word goal was so simple that it was both achievable and inspiring.  The trick is selecting the one word that truly represents your most important goal. Here are some examples: productivity, organize, appreciate, balance, discover, fearless, flexible, and declutter.  Here's one I wish a friend of mine would adapt: No.  She says yes to everyone and has little time left for herself or her writing.  Writers might pick a word like: prioritize or diversify.  Last year my word was: submit.  It helped me focus on a weakness, which was to write and edit pieces, but never spend time researching markets or submitting my work.  And last year, with this one-word goal, I had the most submissions, rejections, and acceptances, in my career. My word for next year should be sleep, since I didn't get much of it in 2014.  Instead my word for 2015 is thrive.  When I'm presented with an invitation or opportunity I can ask myself, will this activity help me thrive?  Then I can decide if I want to accept it or not.  If you're one who enjoys writing several New Year's resolutions, go for it.  Then see if you can find one word that sums up the most important ones.  And tell us your word for 2015 in the comments below.

Victoria M. Johnson knew by the time she was ten that she wanted to be a writer.  She loves telling stories and she's happiest when creating new characters and new plots.  Avalon Books and Montlake Romance published Victoria's fiction debut, The Doctor’s Dilemma, (A 2012 Bookseller’s Best double finalist).  Her other fiction book is a collection of romance short stories titled, The Substitute Bride, and a novella, Hot Hawaiian Christmas. She is also the writer and director of four short films and two micro documentaries.   Visit Victoria's website at http://VictoriaMJohnson.com for inspiration and tips and find her Amazon author page or connect with her on Pinterest and Twitter.

12 comments:

  1. Love this. It's my favorite take on the whole resolution question. My one word resolution: NOW (as in "do it NOW.")

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  2. Hi Sandy--
    Thank You. I love your word! I hope it helps you achieve your goals. Let it be a gentle, no-stress reminder throughout the year :-)
    Victoria--

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  3. What a great way to make a resolution that you can *stick* to! I think I'll take "Patience," as in something to practice more freely. I tend to rush through life and now that I'm in those dreaded middle age years, I look back and wonder where my time went. I should probably slow down and enjoy more of what I've already accomplished rather than rushing to achieve the next goal.

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    1. Hi Gina--
      "Patience" is a great word. I know all about rushing through life and finding it hard to slow down. I hope this word helps you to enjoy your life and all your blessings.
      Victoria--

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  4. Good luck everyone using resolution words to meet your goals. I already had my word -- or maybe two -- before I read the blog. It's a compound word. Independent-abundancce.

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    1. Hi Jean--
      Those are both inspiring words. It's great you already identified words to focus on for the New Year :-)
      Victoria--

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  5. Great post, Victoria. I like the concept. Now...to find the right word...

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    1. Thanks, Carol. Let us know what you find :-)
      Victoria--

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  6. I don't normally make New Years resolutions, but I read with interest your helpful advice. Something to mull over...thanks for sharing.

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  7. Hi Sydell--
    Thanks for stopping by.
    Victoria--

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  8. I kept clear of resolutions this year but I did make a list of career goals. A one word summing up? Improve!

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    1. Hi Leigh--
      It's great that you summed up your goals in one word! And "improve" is a good word to guide you in 2015. No stress, no deadlines, just improve.
      Victoria--

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