By
Sandra Wilkins
Encouragement. Don’t we all need that once in a while? Doesn’t it
get tiring trudging along the same old paths or whacking our way through an
untamed jungle without something to embolden us? That boost comes in all
forms, like a child telling another to keep trying to catch a ball, or the
sympathetic ear of a friend or the support of a group of authors who’ve never
met.
The cheerleader in my life was my paternal grandmother. I was a typical
dispassionate teenager when I began writing short stories. I was shy and
awkward around other school kids, but in my stories things could turn out the
way I wanted. My grandma was the only person I shared my imaginings
with. As much as I rolled my eyes at her praise and thought she said all
those good things only because she had to (she was my grandma after all), I
knew I could trust her with my dreams. It’s been over thirty years and I
can still hear her sing-song voice telling me to “keep writin’ those
stories”. She passed away long before my first book was published, but I
know she’s grinning down from Heaven and proudly telling all her friends about
it.
Without my grandma’s urgings when I was young and the enthusiasm of another
author in a small writer’s group when I was first dipping my toes into the huge
ocean of writing, I don’t know if I would have attempted to find a publisher
for my books. Maybe you don’t have that kind of encouragement close to
home. Maybe it comes from friends or people who share similar
interests. Maybe you don’t feel as if anyone cares. Well, I
do. And, I want to tell you this; you are capable of following your
dreams—whatever they are. Keep striving. You can do it.
I’m not saying to jump out of an airplane without a parachute or think you’re
going to swim across the English Channel if you can’t even dog paddle, but
study whatever you want to do. Learn. Practice. Have
realistic expectations—like you probably won’t get rich being an author.
But, anything is possible if you work hard enough, don’t give up and stop to
smell the flowers along the way.
Now, I have a challenge for everyone. Don’t forget to encourage the loved
ones in your life. You may not see the impact right away, but that
planted seed will eventually blossom into something beautiful.
Sandra Wilkins is busy writing another series while
home educating her two daughters. Ada’s Heart, Rose’s Hope and Gwen’s
Honor are her first three published wholesome historical romances. Go
to http://www.sandrawilkins.com to
find out more about her and her books.








