by Fran McNabb
I’m
excited to once again be back as a regular on Classic and Cozy taking the
fourth Thursday of the month. If you follow the former Avalon authors on this
group, you know that Leigh Verrill-Rys has filled this space for a long time. Like most
of us on this blog, Leigh had to let go of some of her obligations to find time for other endeavors in her life. We’ve all been there. In fact,
for the last year or so, I, too, stepped away from the blog to catch up with life, which brings me to the point: How do we know what is
important in life?
As authors we all try
to juggle the demands of living. Some of us might be raising children or grandchildren, some work full time, and all of us strive to enjoy life while still finding time to
write. How does anyone find the time to do what is important to them?
I’m a retired teacher. When I worked, I seemed to be much more productive than I am now. How could that be? I was away from the house for over eight hours a day, had two boys who were active in school and in sports, and a husband who loved to fill our house with friends every weekend. Needless to say, life was interesting, yet I found time to write regularly. I think the key was time management and being organized. I had to write lesson plans, grade essays and tests, and most importantly, I had to be involved with my boys and their pastimes. And, yes, I had to write and I did.
I’m a retired teacher. When I worked, I seemed to be much more productive than I am now. How could that be? I was away from the house for over eight hours a day, had two boys who were active in school and in sports, and a husband who loved to fill our house with friends every weekend. Needless to say, life was interesting, yet I found time to write regularly. I think the key was time management and being organized. I had to write lesson plans, grade essays and tests, and most importantly, I had to be involved with my boys and their pastimes. And, yes, I had to write and I did.
Maybe because I was
younger and had more energy, I was able to do everything, but besides that fact I think the key was making the decision that I wanted to
be a published writer. After that decision, I carved out the time in my busy schedule. That time might have been
four in the morning while the kids were still sleeping or in the middle of the
night when I awoke with an idea. I’m not sure how I did it, but I’m sure
determination played a big part.
Today I don’t work
outside the home, but I seem to stay busy. Most things I do are not necessary,
but they are things I want to do. I do want to write, but compared to my earlier years, I'm not as productive. So, back to my original point: How do we know
what is important in life? That’s easy. No matter how old you are, family
should come first. Their needs and wants are important, but then what we want
to do should come next. If it’s finding time to write, then we should make sure
that time is there. If it’s volunteering someplace, then find the time to do
it. Wants are important.
They are the things that keep life interesting and moving along.
So, Leigh, we all
understand what you’re going through. I hope all of your life’s callings let
you find time to write and to one day come back to Classic and Cozy.
Presently she has nine published light romances. Her latest book, A SOLDIER'S HONOR