I
know many writer friends who feel overwhelmed with their families, their jobs,
and the world, and they've stopped writing. It's not that any one of them intended to stop writing. But once stopped it's proven difficult
to find the time--or the way--to relight the flame.
I
teach a class about sustaining the creative writing habit and we talk about
what makes a habit and how to grow your actions into a habit in the first
place. For writers this means writing
as well as creating a routine for writing. Among other things, you stick to this routine as much as
possible to develop it into a practice.
Naturally
there are times when you can't physically or emotionally write. Life happens. Life often delivers unexpected hardships and emotionally
draining challenges. When you've
been dealt a jarring setback allow yourself a guilt-free break in those
circumstances. Nourish your
spirit. Gather your strength. Take care of yourself first. Then get back to your writing practice.
A
good way to start is by feeding your creative soul. For me that's a visit with nature. The sound of waves crashing while strolling along the beach,
hiking on a trail, or simply walking to a neighborhood park helps restore my
sense of being. The fresh air and
movement does wonders for the spirit.
After a few minutes in the outdoors I can't help but unwind, and my
writer's brain can't help but make mental notes for a poem or other piece.
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My
next favorite way to start feeling like myself again is exercise. I love Zumba. It's vigorous, challenging, and enjoyable. Others might prefer a jog, a swim, or a
punching bag. Do whatever it
takes for you to get some of that energy out and allow yourself to feel in
control again. Experts say aromatherapy or massage have healing powers. I agree on both counts.
In
time you'll be ready for the feeding of your imagination with things that stimulate
you--be that music, artworks, or reading favorite works of others. Feed it nourishing things. And eventually you will pick up the pen.
Just write. Forget high standards. Forget the rules of writing. Forget what you should be writing. Just write what you want to write
about. Just say what you have to
say. Just write for a few
minutes. No pressure. And you keep doing this until you get
your mojo back.
You're
in this life for the long haul and it's natural to have periods when you need
to step away from your writing.
It's okay. A key to
sustainability is taking that break... and coming back.
Victoria M. Johnson knew by the time she was ten that she wanted to be a writer. She loves telling stories and she's happiest when creating new characters and new plots. Avalon Books and Montlake Romance published Victoria's fiction debut, The Doctor’s Dilemma. Her other fiction book is a collection of romance short stories titled, The Substitute Bride and a novella, Hot Hawaiian Christmas. She is also the writer and director of four short films and two micro documentaries. Visit Victoria's website at http://VictoriaMJohnson.com for inspiration and tips and find her Amazon author page or connect with her on Pinterest and Twitter.
Good advice, Victoria. Thanks for posting this. Just knowing that other writers sometimes having trouble sustaining their writing practice makes it less daunting.
ReplyDeleteHi Sandy--
DeleteI think almost all of us experience setbacks that take us for a loop. I'm pleased you found it helpful. Victoria--
In the midst of moving, creativity, especially writing, has taken a move to the trunk of the vehicle or the bottom drawer right now. This is good advice, Victoria. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteHi Leigh--
DeleteOh moving definitely shakes up our routine. I'm hoping your move is a smooth one and that all your writings, works-in-progress, and office supplies makes it safely to your new home.
Victoria--
Victoria, This is a terrific piece and I agree with all your suggestions and observations. One other way that you didn't mention that helped me this fall was participating in NaNoWriMo in November. I had a deadline (which obviously also helped) but I think the challenge of having to submit my word count helped me enormously. I didn't reach my goal, but I finished my piece and got back into the writing rhythm.
ReplyDeleteDebby
Hi Deborah--
DeleteThank you for sharing your brilliant suggestion. I can see where something like NaNoWriMo would help someone wanting a nudge/challenge/deadline to get into a writing rhythm. Congrats on finishing your piece!
Victoria--