Monday, December 22, 2014

Making Cookies--Sharing Time by Fran McNabb


If you haven’t gotten tired of reading blogs and articles about Christmas, I beg a few minutes of your time for one more.

Our little dead-end street skirts the bayou and is made up of families from all over the country. I’m a local, but we have families from Pennsylvania, Minnesota, Virginia, the Carolinas and several other states. We try to make everyone feel at home, especially those who are unable to be with their loved ones during the holiday season.

One day one of our neighbors admitted she cried all day the first year she moved here because she had to bake cookies alone. All of her large family still lives in PA and one of their seasonal rituals was getting together to make Christmas cookies and candies. From then on, we’ve gotten together for an afternoon of baking and, well, just being together.

Baking cookies is a simple way of reminding us that Christmas might be celebrated with different traditions throughout the country (and world), but many traditions are the same. It’s nice to have the end results of our time together. Everyone takes home several tins of cookies, but that’s not the best part. Sharing time together, enjoying stories of by-gone Christmases, remembering those who are no longer with us—these are the things that are important.  Before my mother died, she loved being part of our holiday bake day. This year is the second Christmas without her, but even though I thought about her throughout the day, I was thrilled to have the mother of one of my neighbors join us. It made the day complete. 

Christmas brings up an array of emotions, but I hope throughout this week, you’ll find the joy of being with those who are important to you—and if it happens to be in the kitchen cooking together—remember that you’re making more than something to fill your holiday dishes. You're making wonderful memories that will be with you forever.

Merry Christmas.


Fran McNabb lives on the Gulf Coast with her husband and loves to keep her family traditions alive during the holiday season. Her first published book, A LIGHT IN THE DARK, is a Christmas themed book set in West Virginia. Visit her at mcnabbf@bellsouth.net or at www.FranMcNabb.com

9 comments:

  1. I wish I could bake without the kitchen looking like a tornado hit - SIGH
    Your bake day sounds wonderful.
    Merry Christmas

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    1. Thanks, Kathye and a Merry Christmas to you and yours.

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  2. Love your neighborhood, Fran. Happy holidays to all of you. Thanks for reminding us what they're all about.

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    1. Sandy, I have the best neighbors. Love them all. It's a very special neighborhood.

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  3. My grandchildren are grown, and I love them dearly. The thing I miss most is making cookies with them. Unfortunately, the live in another state. It's so nice that you and your neighbors share this tradition. In my neighborhood there's just me, the owls, the gators, and feral cats. Ho-hum!

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    1. Loretta, you might not have 2-legged neighbors, but yours are great too. Love the "feral cats."

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  4. Hi Fran--
    There's always room for one more Christmas story! Thank you for sharing your baking day tradition. In my family we get together to make tamales :-)
    Victoria--

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    1. Victoria, I love the fact that we all have different holiday traditions. I've never heard of the tamale one, but that sounds great. Hope your Christmas was a good one.

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  5. Warm friends mixed with the scent of fresh baked cookies is the perfect Christmas gift. Thank you, Fran

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