Like many writers I know, I write around the work I
am paid to do—the “day job.” While I don’t mean for the writing to take a back
seat, that often seems to be the result. I’ve been in publishing for over 25
years, have 13 titles available (most still in print) and a 14th in
the final stages of production. I maintain a website and have a paid
publicist/web designer who sometimes earns more than I do. Nevertheless,
criticism about the “dilettantes” and “hobbyists” in the writing world still
makes me squirm.
Is it guilt because I know I could probably find a
few more hours a week if I was willing to sacrifice sleep or couple time with
my honey or the few small efforts I make in the community? Am I squirming
because I sometimes hit periods of exhaustion when the words won’t come or
occasionally suffer crises of confidence that make me erase everything on the
screen? Or am I worried I may really be treating the work as if it were my
hobby and not the one thing I’ve aspired all my life to do?
I suspect the answer is D. All of the above. If I
were brave enough, perhaps I could break free of the day job and live with the
consequences until the royalties began flowing in. Then again, what if they don’t?
See? I’m back to that crisis of confidence again.
The stories are many and varied about the writers
who’ve lived in their cars or on other people’s couches (J.K. Rowling being the
current favorite) because they believed so fully in their own work. Did the
world have hostages it held until the royalties came? Because I did: I had a
family. And since I still have people in my life, even if they aren’t dependent
anymore, I still have hostages—at least to some degree.
For now I’m going to go on writing fiction around
the day job and creating fantasies in my head about being brave enough to leap.
Maybe those will be the best stories of all.
I left my long-time demanding day job to write novels (and freelance financial articles) full-time and still have guilt moments that I'm not spending enough time on my novel writing.
ReplyDeleteSusan. I can really relate to this. Every day I promise to write. Mostly that promise gets broken. The day job pays the bills and hopefully when I retire I can write more. Today I promise to actually do that. Fingers crossed
ReplyDeleteBoy, Susan, you really hit home with this one. I'm retired and still don't devote nearly enough time to my novel. In fact, I sometimes think it's worse because my day doesn't have structure unless I give it one. I think this is an issue all writers, especially women writers, struggle with. But for today, I'm not going to treat my writing like a hobby. I'm going to give it priority - after I get home from church and have a nice lunch with my husband. Hmm ...
ReplyDeleteGuilty. I just accepted another job which will give me even less time for writing, but I'm still hopeful I'll be able to put the words on the page. There just don't seem to be enough hours in the day. Glad I'm not alone! I'd suggest a support group, but that would take even more time away!
ReplyDeleteSusan--
ReplyDeleteI can relate. There is always something else that wants my attention. It is indeed difficult to make writing a priority all the time. But with 13 completed novels to your name I really think you can stop feeling guilty. Give yourself a break :-)
Victoria--